Positive
influence is one of the most rewarding actions that anyone can have in
life. El Horizonte New has created a
perfect platform to positively influence our readers, friends, advertisers and
our entire Latino community.
Through
this column I will be making logical connections and sometimes not so logical ones
to topics learned and unlearned in my personal and professional life. Women and
men who have managed to build a modern family shared with going up the ladder
in their professional careers have always had simple and complex challenges.
Therefore, it requires managing the five pillars of the human being.
Recently
watching the movie "Chasing Mavericks" with my son, I realized it
uses the five pillars to teach a challenging sport like surfing the biggest
waves in the world. It's a film that I recommend to see with the kids because
it gives the opportunity to talk with them, stressing these pillars contrasted
to other anti-values depicted in this movie.
The
five pillars are linked to the cognitive intelligence, emotional intelligence,
physical intelligence, spiritual intelligence, and cultural intelligence. Many
experts have written about it and some with their variants. For the late Steven
Covey (2004), in his book The 8th Habit:
From Effectiveness to Greatness, a person with leadership means taking into
balance and harmony the four intelligences: the physical, cognitive, emotional
and spiritual. Clint Sidle (2007), the leadership program director of The
Johnson School of Management at Cornell University, refers to five
intelligences and develops his essay from the wisdom of ancient cultures such
as Native American, African, Celtic, and Tibetan, among others. He recognizes
them as the five leadership intelligences ranging from intellectual
intelligence, emotional intelligence, intuitive intelligence, action intelligence,
and finally, all are connected with spiritual intelligence. In more down to
earth concepts, it is to consider how we are experts with our knowledge, our
emotions, our health, our friends, acquaintances or our networking, and finally
all linked with our spirit. The important thing is that these pillars are
connected together like a wagon wheel and in the center of the wheel is the
spiritual connection. As leaders in our families and our workplace, we can be
vehicles of transformation as well as positive agents of change. It is all about a moral leadership that it is
much needed focusing in doing good from every point of view.
In order to handle in equilibrium these five pillars, one
of the best lessons I have had in my life is to accept change. Transformation is a force that can impact
positively or negatively depending on how one manages the force. Those who
accept the change or promote change give the sign needed to positively achieve
things happening. While those who reject develop a negative change in the
actions that often counteracts or find it difficult to achieve their personal
and professional goals.
Managing
change is critical in all aspects of our lives. Professionally there are
corporations that incorporate change management as one of its core corporate values.
In successful companies like Target, Apple, IBM, Microsoft, among others, the change
is a fundamental foundation of its corporate culture and new products and
services are often a result of projects that promote change.
On
a personal level, we have always been involved in major changes during the
course of our lives. Sometimes we are leading actors and other times you are
part of the cast. Latinos living in the United States have experienced the
change as a result of our decision to migrate from our countries of origin. In
my case, my family already has moved four times. The first two included the
whole family and the last two involved only my daughter to pursue her graduate
studies and thereafter to her permanent residence as she found a new job. As a
family and as a team, we manage change in a positive way, always being
flexible, joking about the struggles and adapting to our new lives.
An
easy way to see the positive change is through understanding the process and
its phases. There are three stages: the need for change, the change in action and
the desired situation (Lewin / Schein). A good leader uses multiple tools to make
change happen. Among these tools are the following: analysis of the situation;
anxiety management; vision and common values; communicate, communicate and
educate in order to achieve the vision together; be a role model for change;
openly discuss anxieties and resistance to change; and establish stabilizing systems
and structures with the new phase once the change has been achieved.
In
my experience as a manager, project leader, wife and mother, the best action is
to define the vision along with your team – at the workplace or in your family.
This action together with a trustful communication, which requires listening to
all the persons involved and acting with great humility is the key to success.
You will be amazed if you are opened to listen anyone’s ideas. As a matter of fact, the best ideas come from
your own environment - your peers, your boss, your parents, your siblings, your
spouse, your kids or your friends. Listen to your people.
Great Blog Gaby! I now need to watch Chasing Mavericks as a movie night with my family. Hopefully I will be able to show them those 5 pillars and if not, I will direct them to your blog!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Nancy! It is a really good movie to watch with the kids. I am in this adventure of writing the blog in spanish and english and I am having a blast. You cannot imagine the friends that can give you feedback.
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